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Title: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: Trevor Hale on June 09, 2010, 08:14:32 AM
Hi Guys,

I need to apologize for me not being around much over the past week and a bit.  As some of you may know, I went through a nasty Divorce 4 months ago, and was doing much better. Unfortunately I have had to close my Gmail account that you all may have had because of issues with my Ex Wife.  Additionally, I lost my Job Friday due to a Bankruptcy process, and have accepted a 3 month contract with the former owner of that company. 

In a nut shell things are getting better, but I may not be as hands on right now as I am trying to get things back in order.

Hope everyone is well, and if you need anything, you can always send me a PM.

Best regards,

Trev
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: Kennair on June 09, 2010, 08:18:02 AM
Hey Trev, don't sweat it over here.   You just tend to personal matters, we'll survive and fill you in once you're back in the groove so to speak.  Life can kick you in the ass sometimes but it'll be worth it in the end. 

Good luck,

Ken.
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: ETomlin on June 09, 2010, 09:30:39 AM
Man. I had no idea. I really am sorry to hear such a thing. All the best to you and the family and I pray that you can move on and grow from it all.

Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: Garys on June 09, 2010, 10:57:27 AM
Sorry Trev, had no idea either. Hope it all can blow over really quickly for you . In a positive light though... feel free to place your parts where ever you like :-)

Gary
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: bussgarfield on June 09, 2010, 12:25:01 PM
Hi Trev,

Sorry to hear of your current domestic difficulties.
Some of us have been there before, the lucky ones haven't. Still 25 years on and I am very happy with my current lot (read - wife) bless her.
I do not know of your family situation and this forum is not the place to air such things but I wish you good luck and I am sure that some good will come of it all.

You know that we are a caring bunch here and whilst our paths may never cross I am sure that I speak for us all in wishing you all the very best for the future.

Chin up and keep your hands on the TQ

Gary
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: Boeing Skunk Works on June 09, 2010, 12:37:35 PM
Been there, done that twice. I know what you've had to go through. We'll be here when you're ready for more 'quality time'.
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: jackpilot on June 09, 2010, 03:02:07 PM
ditto.... :D

Thats what friends are for.....
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: MLeavy737 on June 09, 2010, 03:42:28 PM
Trev,
Sorry to hear that my friend. Hope everything works out ok for you.  Just hang in there and keep the blue side up.

Mike Leavy
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: ian@737ng.co.uk on June 11, 2010, 07:59:40 AM
hello trevor......
i'm sorry i've been out of touch for the past month but i also would like to add
my support.   when your world turns to s**t in your hands, it's a hard time.
time is a great healer and i look forward to seeing you back 'upfront'.
take it easy chap and good luck..........
rgds ....  ian
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: phil744 on June 11, 2010, 08:40:38 AM
Hey Trev, we have had many a conversation on emails and stuff, but as we all know shit happens thats out of our control, sometimes you have to take time out to look after number 1, and in the not so distant future you will laugh about all this, were here and plan on staying so dont worry

Chin up :)
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: dnoize on June 12, 2010, 05:31:23 PM
Hang in there Trevor !

Time given, everything will get back in order !


Stef

Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: shaneb on June 12, 2010, 05:36:39 PM
Hey Trevor,

Like Mike . . . I've been there, done that . . . didn't get a t-shirt.    It gets better with time.   In the meantime take care and hope all goes well for you!
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: FLY737 on June 13, 2010, 04:26:34 AM
Hi Trev,
sorry to welcome you as a "member of the club" too. Many of us have been through this, seems to be a desease actually ... Keep your head up and look to the future. I really know - it's not easy when you are down, but there is a light on the horizon, for sure!
Take care
René
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: fsaviator on June 13, 2010, 12:01:58 PM
Looks like we may be headed the same direction bro...

I feel your pain, and sympathize.  We'll all be here.

Warren
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: NAX228 on June 14, 2010, 02:46:10 AM
Crap!

I'm also on the recycle market and it's not as bad as first thought. As said a couple of times here, it get better as time passes by.
With the job issue on top of it I guess 2010 wont make top 3 in your records.

Hang in there and have a beer. It doesn't help, but taste good.
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: Trevor Hale on June 14, 2010, 04:56:29 AM
Thanks Guys for all your replies..  I had no idea so many of you have gone through this as well.  I have to agree with you all that, combined with the loss of my job, 2010 does not make my top list of years, but On a happier note I have managed to find some good in all of this.

Thanks for all your support.. you guys are awesome.

Trev
Title: Re: Sorry for my tardiness
Post by: boris4356 on June 21, 2010, 04:30:03 AM
Hi Trev,

Sorry to hear about your situation. I went through it as well, both being abruptly medically released from the Forces, and then a divorce a few years later. Strange to say it now though, but both occurances were the best thing that ever could have happened. Hopefully you will find the same thing!

Bill